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06/26/2008

Vacation

I've been waiting to get some pic's on my computer, so I could include them with my post about our trip, last week.  But that's taking too long, so if you want a hint, look for the Orcas 2006 PhotoAlbum.  That's where we were, again, and we took a whole bunch of pictures.

While we were gone, temperatures around home zoomed above 110 degrees.  While we were at Orcas, daytime highs ranged generally in the low-, maybe the mid-50's.  Bruce had to wear his wool cap, some of the time, while he sat out on our balcony.  I no longer have a wool cap, so I actually stayed indoors, a lot.  But we had a couple of days that were just beautiful, even when cold, so with the sun out, I joined Bruce more.  We left there early in the morning, and between the temp's there and in Seattle, and on the ferry ride from the island, we had to dress warmly.  Then we stepped out of the airport terminal at home...right into 111 degrees.  Oh, please, take us back!

It was so nice to have left all the responsibilities at home.  No dogs or cat to feed or walk, no Hoagy to have to take outside, whether he wants to go or not, no phones to ring, no impediments to taking naps, whenever we felt like it.  Add to the lack of responsibility the incredible dining at the Inn at Ship Bay (check out the menu, in Dining; in addition to the printed menu, owner/chef Geddes offers several special meals, each evening).  Four nights (they were closed the first two nights we were there) of truly first-rate food and service, with a great view of Ship Bay.  Four nights of irresponsible consumption of yummy desserts.  Only four nights of that . . . and three pounds added to my weight, by the time I got home!!

Anyway, we love going there, and we enjoy staying at Cascade Harbor Inn.  It's a kind of rustic place, not luxurious, but comfortable, and I defy anyone to improve on the views!  Every room has a water view, and I cannot imagine a bad view in the lot.  Manager Ronda and her staff are pleasant and welcoming--and of course, like family, because we've been there every year for six years (that adds up to seven visits).

I'll add the photo album soon, I hope--preferably before we go away again, next week, for a few days.  But no promises!

06/13/2008

Goin' away

I will be leaving town on Sunday morning (obscenely early!) and will be gone all week.  No laptop, no access, no cellphone service, even, where we'll be staying.  Give me a few days after we get back to do any posting, please!  And have a great week.

12/22/2007

Adieu!

We will leave tomorrow morning in order to spend a very few days with my mom, sister and niece in California.

Remember:  Jesus Christ was born into this world in order to reconcile us to God--which every one of us needs and none can do alone.  His motivation in coming, knowing it would mean ridicule and great suffering and death for Him, was simple:  He loved (and loves) us too much to leave us in bondage to our sinful nature, too much to leave us to pay the penalty of eternal punishment.  It's so simple:  Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ, and you will be saved.  That is reason enough to celebrate!

So--MERRY CHRISTMAS!!

12/02/2007

Class of '67

I'm a solid week and a half behind in writing this post, but it's high time I did.  I wish I'd been able to write it as soon as we returned from my 40-year college class reunion; why I wasn't able at that time is another story.

This was the first class reunion I had attended, and I'm so glad Bruce went with me.  It really was more than a class reunion, for me, though; I also reunited, reconnected with Jerry and Nadine, and Warren and Jan, who were my peers in our youth group before they ever paired off; and with Norm and Judy, who were the adult leaders of our group, in the church in which I grew up.  I should say they were very young adult leaders, being college students, still, when they began working with us.  Anyway, it had been roughly 35 years since I'd seen any of them.

I left college without graduating for the same reason many young women quit school:  to get married.  My then-husband and I moved away, but we were still in the loop, to some extent, for maybe 10 years.  Several years after that, tho', we divorced; that was the one of the first of the twists and turns in my life, to the point that I was out of touch with almost everyone.

During the reunion weekend, the reconnecting with old friends seemed to be filling up a hole in my soul.  Even several people that I had known, but not known well, in college, contributed to that sense of being filled.  I had kind of known the hole was there, but I had no idea how deep it went or how important it was--how important those people were to me.  The opportunity to sit and visit, to play catch-up with each other's lives, and just to have great fun during the reunion luncheon, could qualify for a part in one of those commercials--you know, "Travel to and from the class reunion:  $150.  Hotel room for two:  $100+/night.  Seeing old friends:  priceless."  And the cherry on top was that my husband enjoyed it as much as I did.  I've started a photo album (look in the right Side Bar), but I have more pictures to add and editing to do.*

It wasn't quite all fun, however.  As I mentioned in a post below, one of my friends is now in a wheelchair.  I learned from her that 25% of patients with spinal-cord injuries live with a constant, intense, burning pain that nothing even helps.  She is in the 25% group.  The grief I felt for her and her husband after their accident, years back, all came up again.  I just wanted to be able to put my arms around both of them and make it all better, and I don't have the power to do that.  Oh, how I wish I did.

But the luncheon was fun.  We discovered a couple of stand-up comedians in the group; I'm not sure what they do for a living, but Eddie and Clyde ought to hire an agent and take it on the road.  Everyone was congenial and ready to reminisce.  It did come as a bit of a shock, tho', that both the school song and mascot have been changed!  I shouldn't have been surprised; the college moved from Pasadena to San Diego in 1973, and that really did call for a change in the song.  Face it--locating in San Diego, on Point Loma, is a bit of a change from being "Nestled in the High Sierras!"  (I'm not sure Pasadena's exactly nestled in the High Sierras, but we did have some nice mountains to look at, when it wasn't too smoggy.)  Somewhere along the way, someone must have said, "You know, we're at the ocean.  We really ought to have a different mascot."  So the college is now represented by sea lions, rather than Charlie Crusader.  I wonder how that works on the basketball court....

I let 40 years go by before attending a class reunion; now, I can't wait for the next one.  Five years! Listen, at our age, a lot can change in that time.  Sigh.

UPDATE:  I have completed the Photo Album for PLNU Class of '67 Reunion.

11/14/2007

Reunion

Forty years. 40. Years.  Surely that's a mistake!  It cannot possibly have been 40 years since my class graduated from Pasadena College (now Point Loma Nazarene University)!  My mind keeps wandering between denial and excitement, as we approach the time to leave home and travel to see some of my old friends...and most likely, some who were never friends of mine.  Ever since I made a firm decision to go, people I knew back then, old friends, have found their way into my dreams, night time or nap time.  People I haven't seen in 35 or 40 years.  I know they will all have aged, but I'll just have to be gracious about it; I, of course, haven't changed a bit!  I've considered trying my hand at a Confunding charm and telling them that I entered college when I was ten years old, but someone borrowed my wand, so I'm stuck.

I am old enough to have graduated a little over 40 years ago (repeat three times:  I am old enough, take a deep breath, and repeat the set).  I did not, in fact, graduate then, not until 1991; and I graduated from our local university, so my real graduating class was 1991, from our local university.  But I will never attend a reunion for that.

When I was wavering over whether to go to San Diego, I kept visualizing people I didn't really want to see--people around whom I had always been uncomfortable, because I never knew whether they were going to be friendly or stuck up.  Finally, I realized two things:  First, the people who persisted in passing and pausing before my eyes were not in my class; they were a couple of years ahead of me.  When I began digging in my memory banks for people who were in my class, I began to get excited about going.

Second, I am not only older, I'm not the same person I was then.  I don't usually approach people the same way as I did then--What do they think of me?--but more open to seeing and hearing who they are.  Besides, they have all no doubt changed, as well, for better or for worse.  One of my good friends from our youth group is now in a wheel chair, a result of a nasty accident while on vacation, more than 10 years ago.  Others have lost close family members.  I'm sure, if I were privy to the information, I would know many others who had experienced severe hardship or catastrophic illnesses.  There may be some deaths that I haven't heard about.  These things have a way of pruning us, reshaping, smoothing out rough edges (sorry about the metaphoric shift).

One person I would like to see who will not be there is Jeannine, but in addition to the health issues in her household, she will be retiring at the end of this week.  I dunno, I guess she didn't want to miss the party, or something. <gr>  You see, there's another reality check on my age:  My close friend, the one friend I've known the longest, is retiring!  Oh, wait--she's taking early retirement.  Whew!

So...we will leave the campus on Saturday afternoon and go north, a couple of hours, to spend a couple of days with my family, again, and then come home on Tuesday.  I probably won't get around to blogging until Thanksgiving, maybe even Friday.  We'll see.  If I don't, I hope you all have a good Thanksgiving time with family and friends that you love.  And please--not to lay on guilt--try to remember that we all, no matter what difficulties we face, still are far, far better off than most of the world.  So let's give thanks, even for those things that we all take so for granted, even for the things that annoy, irritate or drive us a little nutty.  Someone told me, long ago, that anything for which you can really give thanks has lost its power to defeat you.  So thank God for it and ask for the insight, the wisdom, the clarity to see him, her, them, it, even yourself, through His eyes.

Happy Thanksgiving, and God bless.

10/14/2007

Also, while in Maine...

You may or may not have read about the family of six feral horses that were saved from slaughter by a group of very caring people in Maine and elsewhere.  Bruce wrote about it and posted a couple of pictures, here, but the first link will give you the full story.  We were able to visit these horses on the foster-farm where they have been staying.  When the word first went out about their rescue, many people did offer homes, but none could take all six horses.  The scramble is on, now, to find another home for them, where they can stay together.

Bruce's daughter Cathy, whose family we went to see in Maine, has been helping to raise some funds for the care of the six.  Her contacts with the woman heading up the movement to create a good and permanent home for them--and the fact that we had donated some money for the cause--set the stage for our trip to see them while we were in the area.  These horses are not halter-trained; they're carrot-trained.  When they see two-legged critters coming toward them with buckets of food or carrots in hand, they gather in a cluster at the fence, ready to receive.  Until they were rescued and began receiving good care, they were not accustomed to being touched, stroked, or anything else.  Their earlier neglect has left at least one of them with permanent leg and hoof damage that will mean they can never be ridden.  For the others, there is more hope for improvement in their physical difficulties.

At the website, you can also order t-shirts or sweatshirts or make a donation, if you are so inclined.  If, by chance, you live in the area and can help with the actual care of the horses, that's needed, too!

10/05/2007

The family poet

A week ago today, we were in Maine, visiting grandkids Cassia and Ethan.  Yes, their parents Jeff and Cathy were there, too, along with doggies Dodge and Ace, cats Tinkerbelle, Arielle, Rose (mom and daughters, respectively) and Smiegle (sp?), and guinea pig Camilla.  All together, they are one neat family.  Once I get some pic's transferred from Bruce's computer to mine, I'll stick a few in here and in the Family photo album.  Maybe a couple in the Travel photo album...if I have one!

Anyway...one item Cassia and Cathy were eager to share was a poem written by Cassia, who just started kindergarten this fall.  She will be 6 years old in December.  I don't care how you parse it, in my never-to-be-humble opinion, this poem is pretty amazing even from a child several years older and further along in school; even more so from a child Cassia's age. Her teacher thought it was good enough to be published in the school newspaper, and naturally, I want to share it with you!  So now, I give you "Over the Rainbow," by Cassia C.

Birds flying.

Unicorns racing through the wind.

Mother in back,

Baby in front.

Beautiful girl riding on mother unicorn.

Beautiful sun shining.

Baby bird hatching.

Rainbow stayed for all days.

We also watched Cassia's horse-back riding lesson on Saturday.  She began taking lessons at 3-1/2 years and actually took home a couple of ribbons in competition, several months ago.  We watched her do a running mount, which took several tries because the horse (pony, actually, which I've learned is not a young horse, but a related breed, or something) is so much large than she is and he was trotting.  But she finally was able to grab on with her left hand, toss her right leg up far enough that she could pull up and grab the other handle (don't know the real term) with her right hand, and then pull herself up.  Whew!  On one of her first tries, the instructor ended up letting Cassia stand on her hands to mount; a woman sitting behind us told Jeff, "That's the way most of the adults get up; don't kid yourself!"

I may post more about the trip, but for now, it was a really good visit.  We thoroughly enjoyed being with the family, being in Maine, and have already started plotting how to improve on the travel experience, next year.

06/04/2007

What a week we've had!

We left last Tuesday (5/29) for a visit with my family.  It seemed, for a while, as if there were a conspiracy to keep us in Tucson, but despite our concerns we actually made the trip in 7 hrs. 10 min., from when we reached the freeway, here.  We don't usually start timing it until we get to I-10, because--as was true last week--we often make several stops on our way across town.  So we reached our destination, checked into the hotel and went to dinner.

Wednesday, we went to my mom's, and then Bruce walked back to the hotel (about 1/2 mile) so as to take pictures of the Jacaranda trees.  Boy, there were a lot of them, and they were beautiful!

Wednesday night, we (Mom, Judy, and the two of us) we to Macaroni Grill for dinner.  Getting out of the car at the restaurant, Mom had a quick, sharp pain in her thigh, a little above her knee.  It recurred throughout dinner, always causing her to jump in her seat.  She has previously been diagnosed with Deep Vein Thrombosis (DVT) and thought a clot had traveled into her thigh, which is where they become dangerous.  Finally, she and Judy put their leftovers in a box and took off for Urgent Care.  We soon followed.  Judy had her community group coming over, that evening, so I replaced her at UC, subsequently driving Mom a few miles to a hospital for an ultrasound.  We thought.

Naturally, the word of the M.D. at UC wasn't enough, so Mom had to wait interminably (about 2 hours) to be seen by a doctor, then had blood drawn and waited another hour and a half, or more, for the ultrasound.  Before the necessary person came to do that procedure, Judy's meeting ended and she came to replace me.  The bottom line:  no clot (thank God!), just muscle spasms.  So Mom went home, took some pain reliever and went to bed, which is what she really wanted to do, in the first place.  But if she had done that, she would have continued thinking that she had a traveling clot, and that would have worried her some.

On Saturday, it took us 9 long hours to get home, including an hour for driving across town and stopping at the grocery store.  We were a little too early to pick up Bailey at the kennel, so we came on home, unloaded the car, and Bruce went back for her.  She seemed just fine, although she was out the back door within minutes of arrival.  Good, I thought, she's going to do her business outside, instead of on the bed!  She made several trips out, and after a couple of hours, I went out to check; sure enough, she had diarrhea.  Oh, goody.

Sunday morning, we got up to find her supper from Saturday night deposited on our bedroom floor.  I'm grateful it wasn't on the bed.  But there were a few other small areas of continued vomiting, and several with just froth--the equivalent of our dry heaves.  Naturally, she was dehydrated, and when I got her to drink a little water, later, she subsequently sent that back up.  By mid-afternoon, she was so listless that we started talking about the ER.  Then Bruce followed her outside and discovered blood in her stools.  That settled it.

We took her to Southern Arizona Veterinary Specialists, where we had to leave her overnight.  They checked her blood, which proved to be okay, and hydrated her.  I brought her home, this morning, and she's better--a relative term.  She's taking Metronidozal, a great drug with a very bitter taste that dogs love to hate, and on a bland diet for several days.

This morning's conversation with our own vet' suggested that Bailey might have hemmorhagic (?) gastroenteritis (HGE).  It's not contagious from dog to dog, so isn't something she picked up in the kennel; it isn't caused by stress; no one, in fact, knows where it comes from, but it strikes suddenly, with diarrhea, then goes into vomiting and dehydration, and bloody stools.  Her blood test was 62-somethings that should be 64 or higher, for a diagnosis of HGE, but the pattern sure fits what she's been through.  The good news is that she should be over it in a couple of days.  She is definitely better, but also not yet up to par.

Outside our own family, a friend was taken to the ER on Saturday night with what first appeared to be Guillon-Barre syndrome.  Thankfully, he was doing better by Sunday morning, although he will be in the hospital for a few more days.  By Sunday a.m., the doctor had changed his diagnosis to viral myopathy, which seems vague enough, but at least Rob is steadily improving...last I heard.  He and Linda would appreciate our prayers.

And with that, I'm going to renew my acquaintance with the treadmill.

UPDATE 6/6:  Linda took Rob home yesterday morning.  He's so much better, except for weakness in his hands, for which he will have physical therapy.  Prognosis is good for a full recovery.  Yessss!

Bailey is also essentially her old self, again, which means she is, as I type, on the back of the sofa at the living room window, barking her fool head off whenever a dog passes the house.  I started weaning her, this morning, toward a normal diet.  Of course, I should have known that a Metronidozal would dissolve in the liquid before she could get it down, so she's discovered its bitter taste.  After she finished eating the bulk of her food, I dug the remains of the pill out of the dish and tried to mask it with peanut butter.  Didn't work.  Canned cat food, maybe?

05/26/2007

The Batey

This is long overdue.  I wanted to write about this part of our tour to the Dominican Republic in January, from the day we visited the batey, but you see how long it's taken me.

You would perhaps like to know what a batey is.  A batey (Ba as in back + TEY as in Hey!) is a Haitian settlement in the Dominican Republic.  Back in the days when sugar was a major crop, the Dominican government recruited Haitians to come from their own country to work in the sugarcane fields.  Seven_people_live_hereThe government established these communities and constructed small houses for settlers.  When the sugar industry dwindled, the residents found themselves without regular employment.  Any one of the homes we saw would be condemned, in the U.S., but small and critter-infested as they are, and as full of open-air gaps, they are home to several people.

From the tour handbook for this visit:  This community consists of approximately 2,000 residents, east of San Pedro de Macoris.  "Typical houses are constructed of cement floors, wood walls and corrugated tin roofs.  The most commonly spoken language is Spanish.  The regional diet consists of maize, bananas, chicken, fish, beef and rice.  Common health problems in this area include parasites, fever and colds.  Most adults in Las Pajas are unemployed but some work as day laborers and earn the equivalent of $128 USD per month.  This community needs water, electricity, classrooms and employment opportunities.  Compassion sponsorship allows the student center staff to provide sponsored children with Bible teaching, first-aid training, medical checkups, vaccinations, sports, special celebrations, field trips, educational classes and vocational courses.  They also provide evangelism and special celebrations for the parents and guardians of sponsored children.

I didn't make any notes in the handbook about this visit, but I think that the first thing we did was to help serve lunch to the students.  We soon had an assembly line going; it took a while to get food to all of the crowded classrooms, and all the while, kids of varying ages were coming by, looking for their plate or bowlfulAnother_classroom of food.  As they came by, I had no way to tell if they had finished eating and were going outside, or were still hungry, but I was actually able to ask them, in Spanish, whether they had eaten.  What surprised me a little was that, when I asked the question, those who had eaten, said so.  Keep in mind this was quite possibly the only meal many--or any--of them would have, that day, and I knew the amount being consumed was far less than teenagers would be likely to eat, in the U.S.

Two other memories stand out from that visit:  First, while we were all in the church (many of us with two kids on on our laps at all times) where we had watched the program that had been prepared, an old woman of the village made her way inside and about halfway up the aisle, and she wasn't quiet about it.  She was shouting, sounding very angry and seemed to be denouncing what we were doing, or something.  Theres_only_one_bernard_may_he_be_a Bernard, our wonderful tour specialist from the country office, was up in front, when she came in.  He listened to her for a few seconds, and then, using the microphone, spoke very sternly to her and pointed to the back door.  He was obviously telling her to leave.  She argued, and he answered even more firmly.  When she did turn and head back toward the entrance, she was shaking a rattle over her head and doing some little steps, as in a dance.

We had been told that the batey communities are still strongly influenced by witchcraft, and I couldn't help wondering if she was the local voodoo priestess.  I said as much later, when we were on the bus, and one of the men in our group said no, that a man of the village had been sitting next to him and had kind of blown her off as "one of our crazy women"; I think it unlikely, though, that the local man would have wanted to tell one of the white visitors that she was a priestess in witchcraft.  I could be wrong, and I'll probably never know.  But it was eerie enough, at the time, that I sat there, reminding myself that our God is more powerful than all the witchcraft in the world.  I also knew that many of the locals would be influenced by her, as they are resistive to the gospel.

The project had somewhere around 300 children registered, if I remember correctly, and of all of the parents or guardians, only six were attending church with any regularity; only 40-some students had professed faith in Jesus Christ.  Drugs, alcoholism, sexual promiscuity and prostitution run rampant.  Even among Compassion-assisted kids, the girls will offer their bodies to boys in order to get money.  Obviously, in that environment, a lot of babies are conceived by kids who have no way to care for them, if they survive.  Many of the adults are not at all interested in the gospel, but they do like the benefits of having their children in the project.  The biggest hope, then, is that more of the children will respond to the love of Jesus.

The other memories that stand out all relate to our home visits.  As my group and one or two others were headed down the dusty road from the church, the crowd of children behind us grew.  I glanced to my right at the groups going in a different direction and saw the same--a crowd of kids following them.  I couldn't help but think of Jesus and his followers, walking along dusty roads, gathering crowds of mostly children.  I said a prayer that we would be worthy of the comparison.  Soon, we got in among some homes.  My God, have mercy.  Homes?  Lean-to's would be more like it, with dilapidated walls and roofs, big gaps around the sides at top and bottom, allowing all manner of snakes, rats and other beasties to get in, not to mention rain; concrete floors with dirt covering added to the ambience of extreme poverty.

The hopelessness in this community was so entrenched that it showed in the people's nonchalance with regard to their environment.  Tracey, one of our leaders from Colorado Springs, told me on the bus that, while we were all out making home visits, she had taken a plastic bag around the grounds outside the church building, picking up trash.  Two or three of the ladies on the project staff stood, watching her as if to say, "Why are you doing that?"  They made no move, gave no sign of being motivated to pitch in.  This community exemplified, for me, some of Wess Stafford's statements about poverty:  When hopelessness reaches such a point, people lose all sense of ownership of their lives and surroundings.  There's no reason to try to make improvements, because "It's always been like this, and it always will be like this."

In some places, at least, when children begin to learn that they do matter, they are important to the one true and living God, who loves them and even died for them, they gradually begin to say, "This or that isn't right.  I'm going to change it."  That is how they grow up, then, in the project and in their faith and skills, to become leaders and contributors in their communities.  And that is why we sponsor them, to give them the opportunity to grow into the persons God intends them to be and to find that life with Him is truly abundant.

More tomorrow, or in the next few days, about the day.  But you need not wait:  At any time, you can sponsor a child through Compassion International.  Experience the joy of changing the world and building God's kingdom, one child at a time.

05/19/2007

Such a warm welcome home!

We've been in Durango, CO, all week and, despite U.S. Airways' best efforts to foil our return altogether, we actually got back as scheduled.  Our bags will be delivered sometime in the next 3 or 4 hours....

The weather vascillated daily between gorgeous and stormy, but when it wasn't stormy (afternoons, usually late, and one or two evenings), it was just beautiful.  What flowers were left on the trees on our arrival were blown off by the next morning, but the trees and the grass were nice and green.  As usual, we ate several evening meals at the Red Snapper, which combines a pleasant, Hawaiian-type atmosphere, good service and good food that is well-prepared.  (This is also one of two restaurants we have been to where we come back from a salad bar and find that our napkins have been refolded and re-placed on the table.) Bruce will no doubt be posting, and I hope he decides the picture he took of one of the aquariums (aquaria?) is good enough to include.  When he gets it all done, I'll post a link.

We stopped and sprung Bailey loose from the kennel, before we came home.  We've been so surprised at how calm she's been, since the first couple of minutes.  The clomipramine works wonders!  Kat is pretty good, too, just his usual come-close/go-away self.  I've fed both animals and was starting to deal with mail at my desk, but decided to take a few minutes of 1/1 time with Kat on the bed, while Bailey was out helping her daddy in the yard.

So I laid on the bed, Kat got up and was sniffing around, and I became aware that I was lying on a wet spot.  Not wet enough to wring, but definitely new enough.  Off came the top sheet that is supposed to protect other bedding from dirt and toenails; off came the heavy quilted spread that I've needed to remove for the summer, anyway; off came the bed sheets, the pillowcases and the mattress pad--all of them wet.  Apparently, the only thing that prevented the wetness' getting through to the mattress, itself, is that the mattress pad is quilted.  Thank you, Lord!  The quilt-spread will go to the cleaners, and everything else is washable.  I just hadn't intended to do it tonight!

We can't figure out whodunnit.  Kat never has, before, in three years, and he had access to the bedroom all week.  But neither of us saw Bailey on the bed at any time, after we got home, and she took a leak outside.  She is the one of all the dogs we've had who is least interested in marking her territory, so maybe she got up when neither of us was around and got even with us for leaving--?

And, yes, of course it's much hotter here, than it was in Durango.  Thankfully, it isn't quite as hot as we expected it would be.  Yet.